Someone today reminded me that the art of making a woman squirt has been asked of me and I have never written about the technique yet I conduct private sessions so here we go….
Over the last 16 years of making women squirt I have found that it is important that she is mentally prepared and 100% willing to ride the wave of sensations. If she has any reservations they will limit her chances of experiencing the feeling that leads up to her squirting, why? this I will explain.
It is an added advantage when the woman empties her bladder, why? because when a woman is about to squirt the feeling she gets is exactly the same as if she were going to pee. This is because squirting uses the same muscles as you do when you pee. Now when you feel that pee-ing sensation your first reaction is to hold back because you are afraid of pee-ing all over your man…. unless he is kinky like that, personally I don’t mind, better a wet bed than a dry one, I think you get my drift. Moving along, do not be worried during sexual acts your brain will never mistake pee for squirt.
Just imagine if a man could not tell whether he was going to pee or cum inside you, I know, what a mess sex would be!
So ladies please ‘you need to let go’, ‘you need to push through that pee-ing feeling and let your body go’. Trust me your brain’s sexual functions are fully in control.
Why? Those who did urinate (pee) triggered the action with the power of ‘thought’. You thought about pee-ing and automatically switched off from the ‘sexual mind’ while you excusing yourself to go and pee. There are certain sexual positions that can make you squirt as long as the penis head and about 3 inches of the penis are stroking the G-Spot area.
The easiest way to make a woman squirt and induce the feeling is by using the fingers. Why? Fingers can bend unlike the penis. Some degree of bending is required to stimulate your nerve endings aka G-Spot. The man or woman depending on which way your swing needs to make a hook shape with their middle two fingers and slide them inside your vagina ‘where else’. The G-Spot is located at the upper front wall of the woman about 2 inches inwards. It is behind her pelvic bone. The most effective way of stimulating the nerve endings is by gently but firmly asserting pressure onto the nerves.
For the men who will be trying this later this evening or maybe this weekend, please remember that the G-Spot is a bumpy, kind of rough area at the top end of the vagina. Do not get creative ‘the G-Spot does not move location whenever it deems fit. And if it does, you are for sure not in bed with a human….so run. The G-Spot is about an inch wide and you must stroke the area with either circular motions or with the ‘come here finger motion’. It is important to ask her which motion stimulates her after stimulating an area for at least 30 seconds. Each woman will have a more sensitive spot within the array of nerve endings so please do not bookmark one woman and apply to all.
It is equally important that you (the man or woman) maintain a rhythm so that she can concentrate on that spot and her brain will do the rest. Once she feels like pee-ing then you know you are on the right path. If she feels nothing ‘check to see if your fingers are indeed inside the right entry point’.
While you are performing the fingers motion you could try and multitask and stimulate the clitoris (with your thumb). Some women respond to simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation, it gets them there faster. You can also suck her clit but be gentle, you are not attempting a uterus extraction, you are trying to induce squirting just in-case you forgot!
As she shows the signs of you performing the right motions, you must maintain the pressure and motion pace on the g-spot. She may ask you to either slow down the ‘fingers motion’ or increase the pace, my advise…. ‘do as you are told and you shall get results’ eventually.
Ladies it is vital that the minute you feel that pee-ing sensation you tell whom ever is stimulating you to concentrate on the spot and maintain the pace that makes you feel like pee-ing. Communication while you are being stimulated is key to finding your exact stimulation spot. The stimulation of the nerve endings will also aid those women who find it hard to orgasm.
Remember you are looking for a bumpy, rough area about 2 inch inside the upper side of the vagina. And please cut your nails before you indulge in the World of g-spot stimulation.
If she is in the right frame on mind and you are stimulating the right spot she should start to feel the sensation within 5 minutes or less. But above all its not about the time factor, women need to be warmed up especially to a new sexual stimulus so patience pays.
Your feedback on your trails will be appreciated.